My Dear Cousins:
I am hard pressed to adequately express how sorry I am to hear about your dad. Even though it's coming up to 2 years since my dad passed it's still very fresh. I miss him greatly. I am sure the same will be true for the Russell's in PA. As the last of three brothers I can't help but feel that an era has passed. Kenneth, Allan and now your dad.
I recall visiting your dad on a business trip I took to western PA in the late 90's. I stopped in to visit for a few hours with him at the Conneaut Lake house. He was so welcoming and his eyes lit up when he spoke with great interest about all of you. His love and affection for his family was palpable - that's what I remember most from my visit - I remember thinking how connected he was to all of you.
I imagine that as brothers, like my dad, your dad did not want to make a big deal about his passing. Allan did not even want a funeral although we had a memorial service for him (in my minds eyes I still see the look of disapproval on his face while waving off the prospect of such a waste instead suggesting that we go out and have a good meal instead) . But I always thought that that's the way these guys were. In so many ways they gave us so much and really did not ask for much in return. They were happy just to be part of our lives. And they were and we are very grateful for that. I will always miss my dad and you will always miss your dad. Perhaps as their children we can take some measure of comfort knowing how much they loved us and how that love lives on in us.
I will be thinking about all of you.
Love,
Your Cousin Doug
